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Oops...I posted this in my personal journal and I meant for it to go in a planning community. Sorry, guys!

Question: A female cousin is getting married in mid-August. My invites are going out early August. I'm assuming I should use her current name on the invite rather than what her married name will be, even though she'll be married come the time of my wedding?

Also, a little bit of petty rant for a second. My FI's cousin addressed our invite to her wedding in May with both his and my full names. My cousin addressed mine to me and guest even though she has easy access to my FI's name (our Save the Dates and Facebook) and we've been together and engaged for even longer than she's been with her fiance. *sigh* Silly and petty, I know, but it's just yet another detail in the "My dad's family pays no attention" novella that's driven my mom and me crazy for years.

Date: 2009-06-21 11:18 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile]
I had that issue with two friends--engaged, married around the time our invitations went out. I think I ended up putting unmarried names on the outside, and I put "Mr. and Mrs. W--- :)" on the inner envelope. If I didn't have inner envelopes, I'd probably just put the official name at the time of addressing.

Date: 2009-06-26 07:58 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile]
Oops...I accidentally posted this in my journal rather than the planning I wondered why I hadn't really gotten any responses at first!


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